waiting on esa renewal decision

Hi, can anyone help please. on the 15th may i sent in my renewal for esa,I also sent with the form some evidence and also a brief letter and i mean brief letter from my new gp stating a few of my medical conditions but not how they affected me and also, she felt i should have a home visit. It wasnt a very good letter and she was quite reluctant to write me anything saying, they will write to her if they need any information as, that is what the dwp are now doing? she isa new gp as my gp of many yrs has retired. this new gp is no where near as supportive .Early hrs on the 16th my son was found dead, I now have all that devastation to deal with and the worry that they are going to sent me for a medical. I do flag up as being vulnerable because of my mental health. My daughter rang atos last wed hoping, she could have this information added to my note, my forms were with the medical assessors already and she said that there was nothing she could do as, there a different department. would it be worth my daughter ring the dwp and giving them this information and hopefully sparing me the hassel of anymore added stress. im falling apart at the moment and cant handle being harrased by them. I doubt very much that they will care about my bareavement but, is it worth letting them know.
thank you in advance

thank you Gorden