You are forgetting that there is more than 3 of you, (you, your mum and your next door neighbour), you also have the support of the forum and their members.
If you have any questions then ask, we do have lots of knowledgeable members and mods who can help you.
Gary
Nothing on this board constitutes legal advice - always consult a professional about specific problems
Hi Pusspaws. Take the form a little at a time as it is very overwhelming. If you need more time to complete it you could ring the pip helpline and ask for an extension to the return date. They usually give an extra 2 weeks very easily.
If you are able to ring around 9am the phone lines are quieter then and they usually answer within 15-20 minutes .
Take things one day at a time and be kind to yourself.
