Hi Jaenor
You did nothing wrong, I have just answered your post;
www.benefitsandwork.co.uk/kunena/10-dla-...very-stressed#278231 When you ask a question it goes into a holding pen until a moderator has ok'd the post, this is to protect the forum from libelous claims.
Posts will not be seen by forum members, quite often we get numerous repeat questions from new forum members as they think they have done something wrong, I believe my record is 7 repeat questions, other mods may have a higher number, we usually delete repeat questions.
Gary