I had the interview today, and the lady was really helpful! She says that I am caring for my husband for 35 plus hours a week so I'm now listed as carer! I am now not required to go out and look for paid work.
I have a question though.... What happens next now I'm on there as Carer? He's on pip on both standard rates.
All a bit new this UC lark! ESA seemed so much easier!