HAVE I MADE A HUGE MISTAKE?

I was diagnosed with Rhumatoid and psoriac arthritis last July. It has crippled me. I was hoping that with the medication my life would revert to how it was prior. I am already in reciept of ESA support group and Pip - Higher care lower mobility. My hands are worse than they were and my mobility has been reduced now to hobbling around with my walker even indoors. I rang PIP this morning to inform them of a change of circumstances - and that I want my claim reviewed due to the deterioration of my mobility. My husband died in February suddenly and he was my support within the home. Now hes not here I'm really struggling. She seemed most unhappy about doing this and kept saying you do realises you can lose your money over and over again like she really didnt want me to do this. Have I done the wrong thing. Am I destined to lose it?

I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. I wonder if there is extra money you can claim now you have lost your carer? I'm sure one of the mods can advise you. If you don;t already do so it's a good idea to get advice from charities which support those with your conditions. Good luck!