I have moved your post into its own area. You attached it to a very old post. We ask if people have questions to start their own posts so they don't get muddled.
I'm sorry to hear about your son being refused DLA. If you click on the link and go down the page to the guide - The Best Possible Support For Clients With DLA and AA Mandatory Reconsiderations and Appeals benefitsandwork.co.uk/guides-for-claimants/dla This will tell you what to do next. You need to put in a Mandatory Reconsideration within one month of the date on your decision letter.
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