UC MIXED AGE COUPLE PENTIONS

Back in march 2021 when my husband became a pensioner and myself is only 61 so therefore we are classed as what they call a mixed-age couple, this seemed to cus no end of trouble because my husband was getting a carer's allowance for me, and also I was getting the same for him.
Because he is now getting his state pension, he can no longer get CA for me, so we stopped this immediately, I still get CA for him, and because we were on ESA and I was part of my husband's claim for many years,

because of this having to move over to UC I had to make a UC claim. this was done and boy oh boy were we worse off by a lot. and I must say after a lot of different amounts being paid to us never the same amount 2 months in a row we then went to a £0 award to £44 then £226 every month it's different and I am constantly having to ask if this is correct why do I ask then this every month well simply nothing ever changes our end we are still a mixed age couple he still doesn't get CA but I do I really don't understand why this is the case. everyone who talks to me from my local council all say this looks so wrong
we are a lot worse off and we never know what's coming next, not going into details as to what trouble this makes monthly when it come to my council tax payments

This means that we lost our housing benefit claim so in return we also now lost our chance to get I think it is called pension credit because we are no longer on housing benefit please correct me if I'm wrong on this can't remember what the name
sorry for posting this but I just read a new article on here about ms Coffey and got me thinking are we my husband and I not getting what we are meant to be getting be
and I do understand that nobody can say for sure in indvigual cases just don't understand

hi, there I just thought I let you know that I went to the job centre today to ask why our payments are so different again,
So it turns out that for the last 6 mths they have not been taking carers allowance off my UC claim and for some reason I have not noticed I have been so poorly and have not really checked my statement nor have I told them that our CA has stopped or is any different to any other month, the difference of at least £200 to much
The lady at the job centre sort of said she thinks this is because we have our carers paid weekly not mothy this is why your overpayment has happened so it now looks like I'm going to get a considerable overpayment bill because of their mistake its not my mistake as it really isn't my job to keep phoning them and checking as I did for the first few months of my claim.
SO I GUESS WHAT NEXT well I was just about to phone CA to ask if I can be paid mothy because the last at the Job Centre said if that was the case this Should never happen again.
will I be liable to have a huge bill not is it their fault or is mine worried sick about it now?

hi there yes I do get the carers' element I checked with them today. i have arranged to have my carers paid in 4 weeks from now on hoping this will not happen again.
and that are looking to see just whats going on with my claim