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3 years 11 months ago #259761 by bev
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I am in the process of completing aPIP renewal application for my 39 year old son.
He was eventually awarded middle rate care only after a very traumatic tribunal appointment 2 years ago.
If was a terrible experience for him and he is still very upset about the experience.
He has had mental health problems for 20 years.
I want to do my best filling out this renewal form to avoid the same thing happening again because I honestly don't think he could handle another tribunal.
Can anyone help with pointers for getting an award without the need of attending a tribunal
I accompanied my son to the last one and we both left in tears, it nearly destroyed my son.
Many thanks in advance
He was eventually awarded middle rate care only after a very traumatic tribunal appointment 2 years ago.
If was a terrible experience for him and he is still very upset about the experience.
He has had mental health problems for 20 years.
I want to do my best filling out this renewal form to avoid the same thing happening again because I honestly don't think he could handle another tribunal.
Can anyone help with pointers for getting an award without the need of attending a tribunal
I accompanied my son to the last one and we both left in tears, it nearly destroyed my son.
Many thanks in advance
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3 years 11 months ago - 3 years 11 months ago #259775 by Catherine
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Hello Bev and welcome to the forum,
I think the worse possible scenario of PIP (or DLA) is having to complete a form about your child. I am fortunate in that I have had to do it, but I have seen the impact it has on parents and dread each time it happens. I have now developed a technique where I start the process by asking the parent to record with me all the positives about their child. I keep this record and then hand it back to them when we have finished working on the form to help them refocus on who their child really is. I would suggest that you do the same for yourself.
As to pointers. I would start by saying use our PIP guide. It is really good and really thorough.
First link on this page - PIP resources
Include all the supporting evidence you can, including not only evidence from medical practitioners, but also other people who know your son. This can include you and any other relatives!
Find someone you trust who also knows your son and ask them to complete the form with you. Tell them that you wish for them to be honest with you about the difficulties they believe your son has. As his parent it is your job to see what he can do, and that is your focus. I don’t think it is really possible to switch this perspective without support.
Include the decision of the previous tribunal, and state, if it is so, that his condition has not changed since that decision. If it has changed, still include it, but give details of the changes.
Finally if you have not done so, if your son agrees, get yourself appointed as his Appointee. I wrote a reasonably detailed post about this here {/url] which you might find helpful. Basically, it gives you the legal right to make representations on his behalf.
Please do come back to us if you have any more questions,
Catherine
I think the worse possible scenario of PIP (or DLA) is having to complete a form about your child. I am fortunate in that I have had to do it, but I have seen the impact it has on parents and dread each time it happens. I have now developed a technique where I start the process by asking the parent to record with me all the positives about their child. I keep this record and then hand it back to them when we have finished working on the form to help them refocus on who their child really is. I would suggest that you do the same for yourself.
As to pointers. I would start by saying use our PIP guide. It is really good and really thorough.
First link on this page - PIP resources
Include all the supporting evidence you can, including not only evidence from medical practitioners, but also other people who know your son. This can include you and any other relatives!
Find someone you trust who also knows your son and ask them to complete the form with you. Tell them that you wish for them to be honest with you about the difficulties they believe your son has. As his parent it is your job to see what he can do, and that is your focus. I don’t think it is really possible to switch this perspective without support.
Include the decision of the previous tribunal, and state, if it is so, that his condition has not changed since that decision. If it has changed, still include it, but give details of the changes.
Finally if you have not done so, if your son agrees, get yourself appointed as his Appointee. I wrote a reasonably detailed post about this here {/url] which you might find helpful. Basically, it gives you the legal right to make representations on his behalf.
Please do come back to us if you have any more questions,
Catherine
Nothing on this board constitutes legal advice - always consult a professional about specific problems
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3 years 10 months ago #260072 by bev
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Thank you for your advise which I have taken on board. Forms are almost ready to post . It has taken a while to complete. I explained each question to my son and I completed the for verbatim. I will let you know outcome. He cannot attend another tribunal as the last one was horrible and had a terrible effect on him. Mentally and physically.
Thanks again
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