Hi battleaxe and welcome to Benefits and Work. You might like to look at this link which explains how the site works and where things can be found.
Welcome to Benefits and Work I'm sorry that you have found us in such difficult circumstances!
I'm afraid we need more information before we can offer any help -
What decision is it that you disagree with?
What is the date on the decision letter?
Who has advised that you should appeal and why?
Have you done anything about this already (requested a Mandatory Reconsideration, for instance)?
You might like to bookmark/favourite this on your web browser now so that you can find it easily in future. Then you will be able to come back with further information and questions without having to start a new topic each time. It helps us enormously when everything relating to the same claim is kept in one place - even more so when, as with you, the situation is a little tricky - and I hope you will find it useful too