ATTENDANCE ALLOWANCE

Hello Brassed Off,

Questions beyond those you asked about AA are really beyond the scope of this site, but I do have a little personal experience with what you are going through which I am happy to share.

I have a friend whose mother has full-time live-in care. She uses an agency to provide this, which means that they provide cover for when the main carer has annual leave and time off each week. It also means that should the main carer fall ill or wish to leave the job they are suddenly left alone with a problem. This is not something I have explored, but my friend thinks the service the agency offers is worth every penny. The main carer has a couple of hours off every day, when she can leave the house if she so wishes.

My mother initially moved into a care home, which was funded by her private pension, state pension, AA and taking money from her savings. When her condition deteriorated to the point that the care home were no longer able to look after her we moved her into a nursing home. We were able to get her a package known as NHS continuing care, which covered the nursing component of the fees, and this was not means tested. The managers of both the homes were helpful in discussing the financial options, and had lots of experience.

I really don’t envy you going through the whole process – lovingly managing your mother’s needs whilst also taking responsibility for the business side of matters. I was given some very wise advice whilst we were going through it – whilst you clearly care for your mum, remember to decide what you are willing to do in terms of time, effort, travelling etc etc, and set yourself firm boundaries. It is also important to protect your own health and your family relationships.

Wishing you and everyone involved with your mother’s care all the best,
Catherine

Hi Brassed Off

Unfortunately not, this is outside the remit of the forum. There is some information on MAS web site www.moneyadviceservice.org.uk/en/categories/paying-for-care also check the drop down box Family and Care on the link.

Gary