Hi tony.kenna@outlook.com
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I think as you suggest you will need some face to face advice. I would phone the Citizens Advice Help to Claim number and ask if they can put you in touch with a local Citizens Advice Agency which can give you personal assistance.
Here are the contact details.
Call our Help to Claim phone number
You can contact an adviser through our free Help to Claim phone service. Advisers are available 8am to 6pm, Monday to Friday:
England: 0800 144 8 444
Scotland: 0800 023 2581
Wales: 08000 241 220
Let me know how you get on.
David
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