Hello Jo
I hope you're now recovered from your face 2 face!! Good that your assessor was pleasant and (hopefully genuinely) sympathetic.
It's quite normal for an assessor not to have any of your supporting evidence and/or not be aware of any of your presented evidence. Hopefully you'll have given her all the information she needs at your interview.
It won't do any harm to request a copy of your assessment; best to be prepared, I suppose, and the sooner you have the report the sooner you can begin to prepare for a possible Mandatory Recon. I hope it won't come to that.
I hope you receive a decision on your award soon.