There are growing signs of a DWP push to claim that conditions like ADHD, autism, anxiety and depression are less likely to lead to significant additional costs and, therefore, should be treated differently by the benefits system. In order to challenge this argument, we’d like to hear about the extra costs you face if you live with one of these conditions, or care for someone who does.

Cost-free conditions

Jean-André Prager is a member of the Timms review steering group.  He is also the co-author of a new report for a right-wing think tank calling for up to 70% fewer child DLA awards for mental health, learning difficulties and neurodevelopmental conditions.  This would apply both to new and existing claimants when their award is reviewed.

Prager argues that needs such as tube feeding, oxygen or substantial mobility assistance have readily identifiable costs.  But he claims that “where the principal additional need takes the form of prompting, behavioural management, supervision or motivation, the burden may fall primarily in the form of parental time, vigilance and complexity rather than direct expenditure.”

In other words, mental health, learning difficulties and neurodevelopmental conditions take parental time but are relatively cost free conditions.

Secretary of state, Pat McFadden told MPs in June of this year that he had raised the issue of neurodevelopmental conditions with the Timms review steering group, who are tasked with redesigning PIP: 

“In particular, there has been an increase in conditions like anxiety and depression, neurodiverse conditions and so on. Is this benefit fit for purpose in the way that it is designed, in dealing with that variety of conditions? That is a very interesting question for the reviewers. When I went to speak to them a few months ago in one of their sessions, that is the question I put to them to consider.”

McFadden doesn’t directly call for cash awards to be replaced, but the implication is clearly there.

And in July this year, Timms was asked by Tory MP Joe Robertson whether he accepted that “a system of cash payments to some people with conditions such as attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, where half the claimants are aged between 16 to 24, is not what they need most?”

Timms responded that “The steering group is clear that the provision of cash to meet the additional costs of disability is vital. We will not be moving away from the importance of that, but I think there is a question about whether the process can also point people towards help that may be valuable to them in addition to, or in some cases perhaps instead of, a cash payment.”

The possibility that some people could get help instead of a cash payment for conditions like ADHD is, therefore, one that the Timms review is considering.

DLA for children

Benefits and Work believes that autism, ADHD and mental health conditions result in substantial additional costs when caring for children. These may include:

Transport:  children may need accompanying on journeys when other children of the same age travel independently.

Clothing: frequent replacement because it gets lost or damaged, clothing that meets sensory needs.

Learning and activities:  additional learning support and specialist play schemes.

Sensory aids and adaptations: noise-cancelling headphones, ear protection, suitable lighting or blackout blinds; specialist software.

Food:  cost of wasted food, compulsive eating or the need to eat particular foods.

Household items:  cost of replacement because of breakages or rough handling.

Home education:  the cost of materials, tutors if available and travel associated with home education because your child was bullied or insufficiently supported at school.

Healthcare:  because the assessments or treatment your child needs are not available on the NHS or the wait is impossibly long, you have to pay for them.

Lost income: time off work to provide additional care, including when a child is excluded from school.  DLA is not an income replacement benefit, but this is a major cost for many parents.

PIP for adults

In relation to adults and PIP, some of the costs of these conditions may include:

Transport:  taxis because of difficulty navigating journeys on foot or using public transport. 

Shopping:  the cost of deliveries because you are unable to visit supermarkets or shops.

Food:  ready-prepared meals because difficulty initiating and completing tasks or executive-function issues prevent cooking.

Sensory aids and equipment: as above.

Private assessments and therapies:  especially private sector mental health support, because it may not be available on the NHS.

Utilities:  more heating and electricity because your condition means you seldom leave home. 

Managing money:  problems with managing money lead to late-payment charges and additional borrowing costs.

Help at home:  because of fatigue or difficulty initiating and completing tasks you may have to pay for help around the home - including cleaning and gardening - in order to keep it safe and habitable.

Tell us your experience

We’d like to put together some evidence to challenge the cost-free conditions argument.  So - as a first step - we’d like to hear from readers who live with ADHD, autism, depression or anxiety or who care for someone else, including a child, who does.

What are the extra costs involved?  Can you estimate how much extra you spend on different activities?  Please include things you need but cannot afford, because having no money to spend does not mean having no additional costs.

If you can, give rough weekly, monthly or one-off amounts.

You can leave a comment below or contact us to tell us more.  We may publish extracts from your email responses anonymously, so please leave out identifying details and only include information you are comfortable having published.

 

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    · 15 days ago
    I care for my son who has autism and adhd diagnosed at age 11 and he’s now 21. Over these years I’ve been self employed and his conditions have made it very difficult to work full time. Often I’m dropping work short notice because of he needs me and his ADP has been a lifeline. In addition he can’t take public transport and needs taxis if no one in the family is free to take him places. His ADP has paid for private therapy and psychiatric help and intervention and the total costs of his conditions have truly well outweighed all of his disability payments. When he was younger the amount of things which got broken, televisions, devices, cupboard doors, holes punched in walls due to mainly his frustration and lack of impulse control have cost thousands to be fixed and after the third tv I couldn’t afford to replace any more. It makes me really sad to hear politicians claim that these conditions don’t have any extra cost. They clearly haven’t lived with or cared for anyone living through this. I conservatively estimate that I have lost at least £20000 in self employed income in addition to the extra costs above, over 10 years. It’s also impossible for me to have a job where I’m employed due to short notice when I’m required to be available for my son.
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      · 15 days ago
      @Sarah Even if what Prager said was true (it's not), parents or other family members having to use a lot of time caring for that child is hugely expensive for a family. Working less or not at all, needing additional childcare, domestic help and paying for other services that the parents have no time to do.
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    · 15 days ago
    They definitely have a cost. I use taxis to prevent a meltdown. A bus or train tends to be crowded and so causes an overload. 

    There doesn't seem to be a quite time to go anywhere for any kind of shopping so there's delivery fees there. 

    Then there's the risks involved from AuDHD where I can get distracted trying to cook so it's safer to get pre-cooked food delivered. 

    I'd estimate I spend in the region of £400 to £450 a month on essential travel, food deliveries and just the delivery fee of a food shop. 

    That doesn't include the costs of running sensory equipment or replacing things I've destroyed through a lack of attention. 
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    · 15 days ago
    My daughter S was diagnosed with ASD and PDA in June 2018.   I gave up my job in the October that year.  Getting her to school was taking me two to three hours, often not getting to work until 11am or later, then, some days would get a call to pick her up early.   My work hours were flexible but I could not physically make up the hours.    There was a coach that stopped near our home for school which her sister got every day, I paid for S to use it as well but that fell apart within weeks.   I would pick up S from school at 3:30 and follow the coach home!   School got Ed. Welfare involved because of late arrival, he watched as I tried to get S to leave the car at school at 10:30am with a full meltdown and he refused to get involved because he was not trained for this. After nearly a year S refused school.   After that it was years of  specialist placements; most started/ finished at odd times and only for 6 to 18 hours a week.   One was a 20 mile round trip.   So yes parental care was being given but not without a big financial hit (wages, pension, being out of the job market, having to fund a car and petrol etc).    Parents being able to 'provide care' comes at a cost.    Even now with S aged 21, at home and not employed I am still providing 24/7 support.   I wish with all my heart that she could have a life, job, friends, independence.     

    Costs - not using public transport, leaving an attraction early,  having a limited food menu, finding shoes, clothes, fixation on something for weeks/months with immediate costs then drops it for another.  Accomodating her needs in everything we do.    My physical and mental health.

    PiP gives her autonomy and choices now in her life that I  couldn't afford to give her.    What is the cost to the Council/government if they had to pay for everything I provide for her.

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    · 15 days ago
    My Grandson is 12 and was diagnosed with ADHD, Autism, PDA when he was 5 after years of fighting.
    One of the biggest financial issues is that my Daughter in Law can't hold a job down because she has time off because she can't get him to school phone calls to go and get him from school etc she dearly needs and wants to work but has given up trying...she has ADHD herself but claims no benefits at all. Also the wasted food that he refuses to eat...he feels the cold so cost of oil heating....he is driven to school and collected as he can't go on the school bus...equipment to make him more comfortable ie special headphones particular clothes that are extra comfortable but cost more certain footwear etc.
    My daughter in law had to re apply for his DLA several months ago so payments have stopped and has heard nothing about a decision I know it will be back dated if he is awarded again but that doesn't help not having funds fir the past several months.
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    · 15 days ago
    My dd has high sensory needs and chews items or damages them in meltdowns

    My eldest has arfid and will only eat certain foods on repeat and also has challenges in other areas that cost money. More water costs as extra washing for the childrrn due to accidents past the standard age.

    Adults
    Extra water and heating to remain warm used as a medication.  Mobility items walking sticks and Mobility chair as an considering getting one due to FND and fatigue 
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    · 15 days ago
    Because my son has Autism he was bullied at school by the very people who were meant to help him 9 SEND person and head Teacher) - as a result after seeing him physically being dragged about I removed and de registered him. 

    We have to foot hew whole bill for his education. Meanwhile the School were allowed to carry on claiming for his place for 3 years 🤬

    His DLA goes towards all that. Without it he would struggle to learn, and also he is very fussy with food - so we need to keep that stocked up. 

    Meanwhile Timms and his chums are happy to pocket their expenses and trips on us. This Gov makes me so 🤬🤬
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    · 15 days ago
    I have fibromyalgia as well as social anxiety and depression. The biggest expense for me is taxi  costs.. I cant tide busses becausebof my anxiety and I  can't walk distances,  because of my disability. I can't afford a mobilty scooter, or the rlectric bill, I did have one.so everywhere I go , I have to go by taxi.  
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    · 15 days ago
    I have ADHD, CPTSD, Anxiety and depression. The biggest cost for both my financial and Physical/Mental Health. Is discrimination. For the past 10 years I have fought to hold a job down and this is STILL ongoing. The cost of months without work has in the past reached thousands! Currently i am on  sick leave with workplace stress and severe anxiety and in a few weeks my income will be reduced to 123.25 per week! I have raised a Discrimination Claim with ACAS and there is a 9 week waiting list to see a conciliator! So I am currently trying to get legal advise/ support. However because Im technically employed full time I do not qualify for legal aid which means I chose between spending £1000 - £1500 at least to reach a settlement agreement (which I do not have fund to cover this) or risk even more than this in lost wages whilst I go through the legal process.

    I live on my own and I have zero savings living from one pay check to the next.

    Due to my ADHD and anxiety issues I also struggle to leave my front door unless it’s for an appointment or meeting someone or there is an emergency. Which makes any form of shopping extremely difficult. So I regularly order meals and groceries online (when I can afford it) which often results in spending approximately £15 just because I needed milk!

    Less frequently but it still costs - Fuel for extra journeys because I have turned up to meet some one on the wrong day or at the wrong time (I get confused/forget correct dates and times of appointments) or missed my exit on the motorway and travelled miles in the wrong direction and back just to get to the next exit to turn back on myself.


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    · 15 days ago
    I have autism and ADHD but I’m also physically disabled and a pensioner. I don’t use public transport because of hypersensitivity to noise, smells and lots of people near me. This means I have to use taxis which can cost up to £30 for a return journey. I have a lot of G.P./Hospital and dentist appointments. I also have to use them to go shopping twice a week.
    I have mental health issues and pay my therapist £30 per hour once a week. I have incontinence, and need to have extra washing and I can’t iron my bedding, so I have to pay anywhere from £20 to £40 depending on how many times my bedding needs washing and if I have any accidents and need my clothes washed and showers, this means my electricity bills are higher especially in Winter when I also need the heating on more often. My Autism means I feel the cold more and also because I’m a pensioner. I don’t get the full amount of State Pension so I get Pension Credit and PIP, but it’s still a struggle to manage my extra expenses due to my disability and neurodiversity. I eat a restricted diet because of my Autism and can’t eat out because of the anxiety it causes so I buy ready meals because they are easy to cook and I only buy the same meals from the same shop, it costs more but it means I have a decent meal without risking an accident trying to cook from scratch. The last time I tried to boil something on the gas cooker, I didn’t realise it was still on and nearly caused a fire.
    I have an electric wheelchair, which I bought second hand for £400 and The battery frequently needs charging adding to the cost of the electricity. 
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    · 15 days ago
    I have Aspergers

    PIP is supposed to give you a quality of life eg buy a book, subscribe to Audio books or magazines 

    I pay £48 per month for Denplan to have a private dentist as cannot get a good NHS dentist

    I need an occasional cleaner

    I pay for a chiropodist at £38/visit

    Taxis as have panic attacks etc


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    · 15 days ago
    To name but a few additional costs –
    DLA for children –
    •    Extra bedding due to bedwetting
    •    Specific clothing for sensory/other reasons such as pica
    •    Nappies/pads for much longer than just during babyhood
    •    Cost of sensory equipment and toys, especially once ‘baby toys’ are no longer suitable
    •    Extra equipment for children and safety concerns
    •    Additional cost of any childcare when you have a SEN child, many traditional babysitters could not cope
    •    Cost of travel with child with SEN, if in a wheelchair many cannot use buses etc, cost of deposit for specialist vehicles
    •    Etc etc
    PIP for adults –
    •    Cost of prepared foods/meal packs when cooking is too overwhelming
    •    Delivery costs when they simply cannot leave the house
    •    Cost of taxi’s when public transport is unfeasible due to mental health etc
    •    Additional equipment to make life manageable
    •    Cost of apps to help eg body doubling to get things done
    •    Inability to cope with post or cost of forgetting to pay bills etc leads to additional charges and fines
    •    Cost of professional help eg cleaner when they have become so overwhelmed they need help to get back on top of things
    •    Most of these adults do not qualify for extra help via social services so they have to bear the cost themselves
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    · 15 days ago
    Child with ASD/ADHD/SpLD additional costs per month

    * SEN tutor (OT/learning support) £120
    * 1:1 swimming sessions (safety) £108
    * Extra/replacement clothing and other items £200 on average, can be more
    * SEN equipment such as wobble cushion, weighted blanket etc £100-200
    * Taxis as can’t do public transport £130 
    * Food £100-200 as brand bound and there can be high waste
    * Utilities £100-200 child feels cold, may spend more time at home, regulation with devices, multiple extra washes and drying cycles
    * Specialised play schemes as child cannot cope without a routine over holidays from school £100

    Total: £958- £1258

    Child receives £428 in DLA.

    It doesn’t cover the full costs. Parents do not need more admin providing receipts they need proper support and acknowledgement for how difficult it is, rather than attacked and told the issues are insignificant.

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    · 15 days ago
    Taxis when I can't handle buses, food deliveries when I can't manage the shops, sensory toys, extra heating costs because I'm at home more, my clothes cost more because of sensory issues, stuff like dimmable lighting and headspace app, headphones etc. late fees when I forget to pay things, I can't currently work so I need help with rent and bills. Have to pay extra for two bedrooms because my partners snoring means I don't sleep at all if I share a room with him, and lack of sleep is not good with autism. I would also like to be able to afford a proper therapist who is trained in neurodivergence, or an occupational therapist. These things were prescribed to me when I was diagnosed but there are non in my area unless I go private. Unfortunately, the NHS therapy just isn't helpful for my needs. There's probably more but I can't think of it right now.
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    · 15 days ago
    People with autism, memory recall, communication problems are not concerned about problems with money, being careful, listening to instructions or even remembering. I have two adult sons with mental health conditions.  They cost me a least £35000 in damages that I had to put right myself from flooding toilet and bathroom, destroying kitchen ceiling, breaking cupboards and destroying various other things until I ran out of money and loan privileges with the bank.  Yes they cost a lot to look after due to their mental health conditions.
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    · 15 days ago
    I attend hospital appointments regularly I have to use taxis because using busses is difficult  for me children don’t ask to be  born with disabilities so why punish them. Autism and ADHD are medically recognised conditions so why don’t the DWP research  medical conditions before deciding who needs support  and who doesn’t 
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    · 19 days ago
    I like to echo what Old Mother said on 15th October 2026.
    Why do we have to keep justifying ourselves? Why do we have to breakdown our additional costs when other groups don’t?

    At the same time I appreciate the clear breakdown provided by HairyCoo on 16th October 2026.

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    · 20 days ago
    Labour will force through benefit cuts as a sop too the electorate and Tory's plus Reform,trying too head them off at the pass.It will probably be a token saving overall under 10 billion.
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      · 15 days ago
      @N.B.C (real one) Yes, exactly, life is hard enough. 
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      · 18 days ago
      @JBob1234 JBob1234

      "...planned but never implemented cut...
      ...was included in the official government fiscal forecasts including by the OBR...
      ...Labour in the 2024 general election campaign used the same fiscal forecasts...
      ...and stated they would achieve the same amount £12 billion of savings...
      ...via different changes to...benefits. Changes they did not detail...

      Labour... under Starmer ...detailing £11 billion of savings....
      ...the 4 point PIP rule that has now been abandoned...
      ...the Timms PIP review... is required to stay within the same OBR forecast spending...

      Burnham has repeatedly stated Labour will cut spending on.... benefits...
      ..., the Timms review is still required to stay within the same OBR forecast...

      Labour's current plan is to make at least £12 billion of savings from...benefits...
      ...that level of cuts were factored into the government accounts and OBR forecasts... ...And were included in the Labour manifesto via the government forecasts used...

      There has been no reversal of policy direction on this...
      ...savings reaching billions to be seen from 2030+ "

      Lot of cuts planned there. Not implemented.

      I plan to decorate my house before spring. Next autumn I'll plan the same,. as I will in autumn 2028, or maybe something even more ambitious.

      I have no plan to reverse my plans at all.
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      · 19 days ago
      @djmh75 It needs to stop..now!!!
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      · 19 days ago
      @djmh75 The Labour government has made it clear that it wants to cut spending on benefits for numerous categories of disabled people. It is the government itself and the mainstream media who are fuelling hatred towards disabled people. You should direct your comments towards powerful people who punch down at the vulnerable instead of asking those of us on the receiving end of those punches to stop worrying about what is coming down the road at us. 
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      · 19 days ago
      @Rupert Do you honestly think it'll be a token style gesture because £10billion certainly doesn't seem like a token gesture amount it seems like a we're going to ruin your lives style if intent 
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    · 20 days ago
    ADHD tax due to forgetting to pay bills and late returns/paperwork etc
    Replacing lost/missing/broken items due to ADHD or meltdowns etc 
    Cost of safe foods and/or ARFID
    Cost of stim and self regulation aids etc (and replacements) 
    Cost of prepackaged food and deliveries for when you just can’t
    Constantly having to replace clothes, shoes, bedding etc due to ever changing sensory issues
    Cost of transport coz you can’t cope with public transport 
    Cost of supplements 
    Cost of support to adult or go out and do things or the aids needed to do these things 
    Cost of additional laundry washes because you forgot about it the first 5 times
    The cost of the lack of impulse control 

    Everything costs far more than it would for neurotypical people. 

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      · 18 days ago
      @HairyCoo Also items broken due to regular autism panic attacks / overwhelm / meltdowns - iphones, lap tops, anything to hand. Self harm with objects.  No exaggeration. The cost of the co-morbid severe unsupported OCD - parcels that arrive, can’t be opened due to “contamination”, & L1 unable to deal with them, so can’t be returned in time, & we have to order more. Cost of goods because L1 can’t leave home due to almost constant autistic overwhelm plus OCD. Cost of meal deliveries we have to reorder as L1 can’t eat delivered meal if feels its contaminated in any least sense. Left on doorstep, bag ripped, delivery person brushed against wall etc etc. There is no support despite years of trying. Cost of their inability re self care. Cost of their ongoing homelessness. Many costs due to total lack of support from NHS & social care all L1’s life. Cost of OCD is enormous - L1 can’t wash clothes, but orders them in bulk online & throws in bin after a few days wear. Constant ordering of new clothes if they can get themselves together enough to do an order. We are in ongoing despair. 

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    · 20 days ago
    I have been receiving DLA/PIP for MH since 2009. Officially I am listed as having anxiety and depression although since my last assessment I have decided to go for a psychiatric diagnosis purely because of the threats of cuts. I have CPTSD as my official diagnosis now although nothing has changed in terms of PIP descriptors. I have 3 basic protective factors (things that stop me from unaliving myself and keep my MH stable) 1. My social housing house of 18 years which incurs costs of £50 per week bedroom tax and water rates plus additional heating costs due to my agoraphobia meaning I am here most of the time. 2. My dog who acts as my carer, I can't cope with contact with human beings so she is my only company, she also helps to regulate my emotions, provides me with a structured day to keep me busy and stop my mind from spiralling, she makes sure I'm awake in the daytime rather than at night which would be my choice but is bad for my MH. Looking after a dog properly is not cheap, pet insurance, vet bills for preventive care, good quality food and beds, toys treats etc. 3. My car, I cannot use public transport because of the proximity of other people so the only way I can leave my house to walk my dog is by car. I don't qualify for EM so I have to cover the costs of running a car with my SM and part of my EDL. I struggle to eat and rarely cook so I use ready meals a lot, I have to keep my mind busy to avoid spiralling and I don't drink or use drugs so the only thing that will do that is rewatching familiar TV so I have to pay for streaming, tv licence and fibre broadband, all of which I would not be able to afford if I was on basic UC. I never buy clothes, I never eat out, I never get my hair done or get takeaways (too scared of food poisoning) and as I said I don't smoke, drink or take drugs. All the money I receive gets spent on essential bills or my 3 life essentials, dog, home, car. Take any of them away and I won't last long.
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      · 18 days ago
      @Matt Good post.
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      · 20 days ago
      @D Thanks for sharing, but there's no chance that Labour will actually change the benefits system for the better. At heart, all reviews are Treasury led. And the bean counters will want to save money because a larger chunk of the electorate hate paying tax, and are fearful of paying more tax. Until employers start paying people properly, which will anger their shareholders, nothing is likely to change for the better.